There are times when a word or phrase trips my switch and some spark of illumination lights up my imagination. My friend, Laurie Buchanan, furnished the last sparks with her words “practicing living”.
Living. Isn’t it amazing that something so basic can be so hard to describe in words? And being so simple and basic, how tempting it is for us to make it hard to do. It’s something I was mulling over last night, that Life is not so much an Event as it is a Journey taken step by step, as Laurie puts it “practicing” all the way. If this is the Journey and we are practicing, the Event must be sometime and somewhere in the Future. In this time people seem to want eveything to happen microwave fast, or at least at the speed of sound. You pick up your cell phone, speed dial a number and the pre-made casserole goes from freezer to micro-wave in about 30 seconds. There – supper is taken care of. Done. I am ever mindful of the speed of time and feel no need to cram as much as possible into my days. In fact, I find myself culling certain things that have become bothersome or simply non-essential to my peace of mind.
In Gardening I have discovered that I have developed a train of thought that allows subjects on and off in a leisurely fashion, no frantic or obsessive thinking allowed, no rushing to achieve results at record speed. It’s no surprise that so many Spiritual Orders find meditative gardens so useful. Like labyrinths, physical motion is required but frees the mind to consider other avenues of thought. I suppose I am thinking about the practice of patient living. I’ve never been a patient person by nature, now with one or another circumstance revising my take on life, I find that I’m really not in such a hurry. The deadline hasn’t changed, just my attitude on how fast I want to run to get there. Practicing patience is hard as any mother can tell you, especially under trying circumstances. So my green beans still aren’t ready to pick at 60 days instead of the 53 days promised on the seed packet. Will I go hungry or lose sleep? Certainly not. I should be able to adjust to the rhythm of Life instead of expecting Life to change it’s tune to accommodate me. It’s just so much more fun to take the slow train and see the sights than jump the fast jet and miss all the scenery. I reckon we’ll just keep practicing until we get it right and Graduate with Honors.




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July 13, 2012 at 4:08 pm
Laurie Buchanan
Sandi –
Oh boy was I excited to receive a subscriber email notifying me of a new post at Under Southern Skies. I love the photographs of your garden. If I lived closer I’d help you weed it, pick beans, and snap ‘em, too (of course that’s easy to say over 1,000 miles away)…
I love when you said:
“I am ever mindful of the speed of time and feel no need to cram as much as possible into my days. In fact, I find myself culling certain things that have become bothersome or simply non-essential to my peace of mind.”
yes, Yes, YES!
Great post — thank you.
July 13, 2012 at 4:18 pm
sandiwhite
Oh, but, Thank you! Your remark about practicing Excellence led my mind to wander through here! I didn’t know this before but if you click on the photographs they give an enlarged view. You can practically count my weeds. Lately I have found that wasting some time is a superb way to spend it. Thanks, Laurie!
July 13, 2012 at 6:06 pm
Libby Keane
What a lovely blog you have here. Your garden looks beautiful too.
July 14, 2012 at 4:48 pm
sandiwhite
Libby, thanks so much for stopping by, I appreciate your visit. My garden is my toy, my work and therapy all rolled into one, I’m glad you like it!
July 16, 2012 at 11:16 am
denniscoulter
Sandi, “Yesterday is today’s memory and tomorrow is today’s dream … so let today embrace the past with remembrance and the future with longing,” Kahlil Gibran. I’m with Lauri on this, “ just keep practicing.” Sandi, your insight to life, your eye for beauty and your success as a mother assure us that you are on the right track, and you will “Graduate with Honors.”
July 16, 2012 at 11:50 am
sandiwhite
Dennis, thank you for dropping by, and especially for your very nice comment. Nothing like a few kind words to brighten my day!
July 16, 2012 at 4:41 pm
Libby Keane
You’ve been nominated for the kreativ blogger award for such a wonderful blog. http://smallspacebigharvest.com/2012/07/16/bad-form/
July 16, 2012 at 5:07 pm
sandiwhite
Libby! Are you kidding? I am flabbergastered! Thank you so much for the nomination! I am, well, speachless! Thanks Again!
July 17, 2012 at 4:31 pm
Libby Keane
You are very welcome. Keep up the good work.
July 17, 2012 at 4:46 pm
sandiwhite
Thanks, Libby!
July 16, 2012 at 6:57 pm
denniscoulter
Sandi, Can you hear me.You can’t see me, I am the short guy in the back saying, “That’s my friend, Sandi; She’s good.” I don’t bragging on my friends. Especially, when I know I’m right! Congrats, Dennis
July 16, 2012 at 9:41 pm
denniscoulter
What I meant to say was: I don’t mind bragging … Man! … I can’t believe you even let this old absent minded professor on your site.
July 17, 2012 at 2:30 am
sandiwhite
Dennis, Thank you! Not to worry, my mind goes AWOL much more often than I care to admit. This is the odd thing, you are the reason I came back to this blog to start with. How could I teach you something if I couldn’t do it myself? You’re right about one thing, God has an unlikely sense of humor!
August 2, 2012 at 2:57 am
Barbara Kass
Even though I have subscribed before, for some reason, I didn’t get the subscriber e-mail! So, I have subscribed again. I so appreciate your wisdom about not rushing to get anything done. That is one thing I miss about my townhouse: my upper deck container garden. I would like to be on the “slow train” more often, too.
August 7, 2012 at 1:10 pm
sandiwhite
Hey there, Barbara! Gosh, I don’t know if it has been the heat or what but I seem to have turned into an observer, a watcher of Life unfolding instead of running along beside it, urging it to “Hurry! Hurry!” It could be my advanced age, going to be 60 in a few weeks, but Time just seems to moving a little faster all the time. It’s as if my mind is telling my body, ” Slow down, enjoy this, this very moment. Life will never be exactly the same as this again. Remember this Now.” The field peas are almost ready to pick, I wish you and Laurie could come down, we’d sit on the porch with glasses of iced tea and shell peas while talking about everything and nothing. Vacuum cleaner races around the Moon and other important things.
August 27, 2012 at 6:47 pm
oceannah
What a lovely space and lovely gardens Sandi. I’m with you on the garden being the toy/therapy/work
*anna
August 29, 2012 at 8:49 am
sandiwhite
Anna, thank you so much for stopping by my garden. It is a quiet restful place, I’ve put a lawn chair under the pear tree so I can just sit and do nothing if I like, or maybe eat a sandwich for my lunch. But sure enough, if I sit there long enough something will catch my eye and I’m up again. I think I’ll set out another chair for visitors.
August 29, 2012 at 1:59 pm
oceannah
ahh, yes, the garden always beckons
September 25, 2012 at 1:28 pm
Kathy
Like you, I’m practicing, too. Trying to be more conscious, more present, more here, and noticing when I’m not. The garden is a good place to practice. Thank you for sharing your spirit here. Anything left in your garden now?